How to Handle Conflicts in a Relationship

What happens when you encounter arguments and conflicts in your relationship? How are you going to manage it without anyone getting hurt?
Is there a way to save your relationship and to turn things around? Or, would rather find your way out?
How Conflicts Affect Relationships
A conflict in a relationship is any kind of problem or disagreement. Sometimes, it could be a long-standing issue that has been left hanging or unpleasant emotions that had been bottled up for a long time.
It could be about a third party in your relationship, financial matters, irreconcilable differences and incompatibility issues.
Conflicts can be overly stressful. However, they can also be beneficial to clear the air and to resolve problems that you’ve been ignoring for a long time.
Conflicts may result from anger or from emotions that had been kept for quite some time. When these happen, we are more likely to say the most hurtful words and we have a tendency to submit easily to our emotions.
As a result, disagreements can escalate very quickly and can become unpleasant and very personal. Sadly, when we are emotionally-attached to a person, we know exactly the best way to hurt them.
And in the face of anger and when emotions get really high, that is what we’re capable of doing no matter how much we’ll regret it later on.

Is there a way to avoid this from happening? How can we effectively handle conflicts in our relationship? Here’s some advice;
Stop the Blame Game
If you’re going to through difficult times, try to find a resolution. Instead of blaming each other or putting the blame on somebody else, focus on finding a solution to the problem.
If the conflict is already there, there is nothing much you can do other than to find a way to get past the situation.
Walk Away If You’re Angry
Your partner is not a shock absorber so don’t put all the pressure on them. If you feel like you’re in bad shape to communicate or you’re unable to handle the situation calmly, just walk away.
Allow yourself to cool down and to gather your thoughts. Heated arguments won’t solve anything. It can only cause you to blurt out hurtful words that you might regret later on.
Be Mindful about Your Words
Once you say something, you won’t be able to take it back. So be mindful about the words that come out of your mouth.
Most relationships fail because words don’t come out right or they are easily overcome by emotions. So be mindful enough about your choice of words.
Don’t Get Physical
No matter how ugly and complicated things get, don’t inflict pain on yourself or on your partner.
It is very unhealthy to get physical during arguments. The moment you lift your hand on your partner, things can easily go down for your relationship.

Accept the Challenges
All relationships go through hard times and no couple is totally spared from them. So save yourself from all the frustrations and start accepting the challenges. Your attitude during the worst times can have significant impact on your relationship goals.
Learn to Apologize
Learn to admit your mistakes and apologize properly. And remember, sincere apologies have three parts; “I’m sorry”, “I won’t do it again” and “what can I do to make things right?”